Those Who Loved You And Were Helped By You Will Remember You.

…So carve your name on hearts and not on marble.

We can leave a legacy of love that others will remember because they loved us and were helped by us. We can make a lasting impression on others as if we are carving our name on hearts and not on marble.

This is a guest post by Beth Harris. She is a wife, mother, Bible study leader and volunteer editor for markalanwilliams.net. 

In the past year, I’ve attended two Celebration of Life ceremonies to remember dearly loved individuals from my church. Each service was God honoring, uplifting and touching. I was especially moved by loving tributes given by grown children for parents, as well as kind comments made by relatives and friends.

I couldn’t help but ask myself, how will my children, husband, family and friends remember me? I thought about the kind of legacy I want to leave.

It’s important to me that family and friends remember me as a committed Christian. I want them to be able to say that I loved Jesus and them well. I hope they say that I was a woman of integrity and someone who helped others. Of course, it’s only by the grace and power of God that people will remember me well.

Somber occasions to remember others give us a chance to examine our own lives as well. These gatherings remind us of the reality that one day others will gather to remember us. This self-reflection is helpful, because we can make necessary changes to ensure we leave a good legacy.

It is better to go to a house of mourning than to go to a house of feasting, for death is the destiny of everyone; the living should take this to heart. Ecclesiastes 7:2 (NIV)

People will remember us fondly, if we have been intentional about loving and helping them. This is the essence of carving our name on hearts and not just marble.

Our main focus should be to love the Lord and others.

• John 13:34 says, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” (NIV)

• Luke 10:27 says, “He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.'” (NIV)

A life lived for Jesus and that is others centered is the best legacy to leave.

Leaving a good legacy doesn’t happen without self-reflection and planning.

Psalm 90:12 says, “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” (NIV)

Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the Lord.” (Lamentations 3:40 NIV)

We can ask the Lord for the wisdom to know how fleeting life is and for His help to leave a good legacy. We can ask our loved ones and friends for their honest and kind feedback.

In addition to the wisdom of the Bible, another great resource and guide is the Don’t Miss Your Life eBook. This book offers steps to live a life that people will remember.

Leaving a good legacy begins when we understand that God created us to live life with a purpose.

Knowing our purpose and core values  can help us to create a life vision and set goals. Then, we can monitor our goals to ensure we stay on track.

Have you thought about how you want people to remember you?

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Those who loved you and were helped by you will remember you. So carve your name on hearts and not on marble. –Charles Spurgeon | CLICK TO TWEET

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Thy Way, Not Mine O Lord, However Dark It Be;

…lead me by thine own hand; choose out the path for me.

This quote expresses the Christian who is so committed to God’s way that not even the fear of a dark path can dissuade them from following Him. They understand that there is no failure when God leads or in His will.

Horatius Bonar was a Scottish author, preacher and hymn writer who lived in the 1800’s. This quote is from the hymn, “Thy way, not mine, O Lord” and is just 1 of over 100 hymns that he wrote. He was acquainted with the dark path, as 5 of his children died while they were still young.

This is a guest post by Beth Harris. She is a wife, mother, Bible study leader and volunteer editor for markalanwilliams.net.

In 2003, my husband was doing well enough for me to quit my full-time job as an Administrative Assistant to stay home with my then pre-teen children. I was grateful, but I struggled with the transition–I felt lost because sadly much of my identity and satisfaction in life came from work.

I asked the Lord to help me navigate through this time and just happened to pick up a copy of the “Purpose Driven Life”, by Rick Warren. This book resonated with me and confirmed what I had been reading in the Bible. In addition to serving my family; I clearly understood that God was leading me to become actively involved as a member of a local church, join a weekly women’s Bible study, know and use my Spiritual gifts; and last but not least, help others come to Christ and grow as committed followers.

I fully embraced God’s way and path for me. Although, it has been dark at times, He’s brought blessings out of every challenge and faithfully led me every step of the way.

We can choose to live our way, or we can surrender our will and live God’s way. If we choose His way, we won’t be disappointed, because His way is always best; regardless of how dark it may be at times. We are wise if we trust Him to lead us by His hand and choose the path for us.

God’s way for us to live is by faith through a personal relationship with His Son Jesus Christ. Jesus is the way for us to be reconciled with God, receive forgiveness for our sins; and have eternal life.

The first step to living God’s way is to accept Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior.

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Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” John 14:6 (NIV)

Jesus is the only way to God and when we ask Him to be our Lord and Savior; we surrender control of our lives to Him, and He becomes the boss of our life.

Then we surrender to Him daily as Luke 9:23-24 says, “And he said to all, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it.” (NIV)

And Romans 12:1 says, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship.” (NIV)

The Christian life is one of self-denial and surrender. Which means that in every situation, rather than make our own decisions; we pause and ask the Lord what He would have us do and what would please Him?

We can actually know the will and mind of the Lord through His Word!

Isaiah 41:13 says, “For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.” (NIV)

If the path gets dark because of challenges, we need not fear, because God will take hold of our hand and lead us.

This quote says it well:

God always gives His best to those who leave the choice with Him.” Jim Elliot

We can let God choose our path because we know that He is good and His plans for us are good.

We have the promise of Romans 8:28 which says, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” (NIV)

Although, His way and plans may not always feel good, they are working for our good.

Are you following God’s way and path for your life?

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When God Pushes You To The Edge Of Difficulty Trust Him Fully…

We can trust God fully when He pushes us to the edge of difficulty, because He often tests our faith to see if we will trust or doubt Him. However, God will never tempt us to sin nor should we take steps of faith without prayer and confirmation.

This is a guest post by Beth Harris. She is a wife, mother, Bible study leader and volunteer editor for markalanwilliams.net.

5 years ago, I was pushed to the edge of difficulty as I suffered through depression. It was dark and scary. The worst of it lasted 5 months and was compounded by the fact that I couldn’t sleep more than 1 to 2 hours per night. I had experienced depression years ago and God had helped me then, so I reasoned He could help me again. With stubborn faith, I clung to Him and His Word like never before. I put my trust in Him and as I took steps of faith to recover; He graciously restored me.

I know God didn’t push me into depression, but I believe He allowed it to happen and through the difficulty, He helped me respond to Him with faith and trust. After this painful trial, I experienced many new opportunities to serve Him in various ministries. As difficult as the experience was, I know that God used this time of suffering to produce Spiritual fruit in my life and in the lives of others.

In the Christian life, we will go through many experiences where our faith is challenged and tested.

We may feel like we are at the edge of a precipice and about to fall. But, God allows us to go through trials to see if we will trust or doubt Him; and He wants us to trust Him fully.

Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. (James 1:2-4 NIV)

The testing of our faith produces perseverance which makes us mature and complete.

Sometimes, God asks us to trust Him by taking a step of faith as he did with Moses.

Exodus 3:9-11 says, “And now the cry of the Israelites has reached me, and I have seen the way the Egyptians are oppressing them. So now, go. I am sending you to Pharaoh to bring my people the Israelites out of Egypt. But Moses said to God, “Who am I that I should go to Pharaoh and bring the Israelites out of Egypt?” (NIV)

It can be scary to trust God and take a step of faith; and we may be reluctant.

Exodus 3:12 says, And God said, “I will be with you. And this will be the sign to you that it is I who have sent you: When you have brought the people out of Egypt, you will worship God on this mountain.”

It may feel as though we are alone, but we can trust God to be with us as we go through difficulty and take steps of faith.

We should be careful not to confuse God’s testing with temptations that we may face. God tests us for our good, but He will never tempt us to sin.

James 1:3-14 says, “When tempted, no one should say, “God is tempting me.” For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; but each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed.” (NIV)

We can pray for God’s protection and remember that He will provide a way out of temptation. When you’re tempted, look for the escape route!

No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it. (1 Corinthians 10:13 NIV)

There is usually some level of risk involved with leaving our comfort zone and entering unknown territory. However, in taking steps of faith, we shouldn’t put God to the test as Matthew 4:7 says, “Jesus answered him, “It is also written: ‘Do not put the Lord your God to the test.’” (NIV)

Taking steps of faith may require us to leave what is familiar to accept the unfamiliar, and sometimes uncomfortable. In fact, we may experience greater temptation and opposition when we step out in faith. But, faith is necessary to please God as Hebrews 11:6 says, “Without faith it is impossible to please God.” (NIV)

Our decisions to step out in faith should be prayerfully considered and confirmed by the Bible. We can also seek wise counsel from our pastor and other mature Christians.

God will catch us if we stumble and fall as Psalm 40:2 says, “He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.” (NIV)

He lifts us up when we are stuck in the difficulties of life and puts us on solid ground.

Isaiah 40:31 says, “But those who trust in the Lord will find new strength. They will soar high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint. (NLT)

The Lord will renew our strength. We can trust Him fully when He stretches our faith by pushing us to the edge of difficulty, because He will catch us if we fall or teach us to fly.

Have you been pushed to the edge of difficulty?

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